What's Wrong Is Always Available

It's easy to fall into the trap of blaming our problems on everything and everyone around us. We often fail to recognize that the power to make changes in our lives lies within ourselves. By avoiding the difficult work of digging deep into our inner awareness, we become our own biggest enemy, interfering with our success and progress.

Fear of failure can hold us back from moving forward, causing us to blame the world for our lack of achievement instead of embracing our mistakes as valuable tools for course correction. The truth is, what's wrong will always be available to us—but when do we start looking for the lessons and focusing on what's right?

As women over 50, we have a unique advantage when it comes to embracing our power to facilitate change. Our wealth of life experience has equipped us with the ability to recognize patterns of self-sabotage and blame, allowing us to break free from these limiting beliefs and behaviors. We have the wisdom to understand that growth and success often require facing our fears and learning from our mistakes, rather than running from them.

By embracing our own mistakes, no matter how large or small, and owning our faults, we become aware of our inherent power to facilitate change in our lives. We discover that what's right is just as available as what's wrong.

This shift in perspective is not always easy, but it is necessary for unlocking our true potential. It requires a commitment to self-reflection, a willingness to take responsibility for our actions, and the courage to face our fears head-on. By cultivating these qualities, we can transform our relationship with failure and embrace it as a natural part of the growth process.

One powerful way to embrace this shift is by practicing self-compassion. When we make mistakes or encounter setbacks, it's easy to fall into the trap of self-criticism and negative self-talk. However, by treating ourselves with kindness and understanding, we create a safe space for growth and transformation. We recognize that our worth is not defined by our failures, but by our willingness to learn from them and keep moving forward.

Another key aspect of facilitating change is cultivating a growth mindset. Instead of seeing our abilities and potential as fixed, we must recognize that we are always capable of learning, adapting, and evolving. By embracing challenges as opportunities for growth and viewing failures as stepping stones to success, we unlock our inner power to create the lives we desire.

Just as a glass can be seen as half full or half empty, we have the power to choose our perspective. By adopting a higher awareness of self and embracing our own power to facilitate change, we can unlock the door to a life of purpose, passion, prosperity, and power. As women over 50, we have the unique advantage of drawing from our rich life experiences to navigate this transformative journey with grace, resilience, and unwavering determination.

You age is not a limitation, it is your superpower.

About the Author

Dr. Diva Verdun, the Fierce Factor Expert and #1 transformative architect on aging, empowers women over 50 to seize their destiny and Age with Power™. Through her signature F.I.R.E.™ methodology and Fenom University, she ignites women's fierce potential to live life on their terms. Follow her on Facebook or Linkedin.