Love is Spiritual Essence and Catalyst for Mature Relationships

Contrary to socialization, love transcends mere emotion; it embodies the essence of spirit made manifest within us. It's the recognition of our interconnectedness and the journey of self-love that forms the foundation of genuine relationships, where material gestures pale in comparison to the profound awareness of love's inherent presence within ourselves and others.

Love is a constant quotient of ONE in the Universal All. You incarnated into this experience to demonstrate this ONEness, which begins with Love of self.

The true demonstration of this ONEness, this Love, is not about flowers, chocolates, dinner and trinkets, which are of course all nice but gifts received and given are merely material trophies of the expression of Love. They are not the impetus for what is real. Real love comes from the awareness that you are Love incarnate as you learn to see others as Love.

This brings the awareness that relationships are a mirror reflection of the Love, or lack thereof that is reflected in your relationships. At this point you recognize the negativity reflected in your relationship mirrors is shining light on your own patterns of negativity.

Self-growth means being mature enough to embrace what is not always easy to learn about self to face your ego and be responsible for your own deeply lodged emotional debris, which you see reflected back from others. This is true self-love.

You see, there is no such thing as being unlovable because there is only Love in the Universe, which is always constant. It never fails. It never struggles. It simply IS.

Feeling unloved is the fear of rejection reflected back from others. It is the egos way of blaming others for your own lack of self-love. 

The more vested you are in Self-Love, the more capable you are of healing your inner divides to create an atmosphere that attracts the Love that you desire. You take self-responsibility and begin to use your relationship mirrors as tools to heal yourself rather than attempting to change others, because the mirror can only reflect back the same likeness. 

Understanding that love originates from within, not from external sources, empowers us to navigate relationships with clarity and maturity. By embracing self-responsibility and using our relationships as mirrors for personal growth, we align with the constant, unwavering love that permeates the universe, guiding us towards healing, harmony, and self-fulfillment. ■